An Attitude of Gratitude
How often do you hear people express sincere gratitude? Try an experiment. Keep track of the number of complaints you hear each day and compare that with the number of times you hear people express sincere words of gratitude.
Are we really grateful? Or are we more apt to complain than to give God thanks?
“Gratitude” is from the same root word as the word “grace.” A person who has begun to accept how gracious God is to us becomes a grateful person. Paul says to the believers in Thessalonica, Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
If we live lives that are consistently joyful; if we are striving to live in an attitude of prayer, it will lead us to thankfulness in all circumstances. The psalmist caught this spirit in Psalm 97:1 when he reminds us that whatever is going on, the Lord reigns and the Earth should be glad. As long as God rules, I can be joyful. God is over all things. He’s not responsible for all things that happen, but he’s promised to work through all things and bring good to those who trust him. It’s not unusual for God to use the very worst developments to bring about the best end. Romans 8:28 says: And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
A ship was wrecked, and the only survivor washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He was exhausted. He cried out to God to save him. Every day he scanned the horizon, searching for help. Finally, he managed to build a rough hut and put his few articles in that hut. One day, coming home from hunting for food, he was stung with grief to see his little hut in flames and a cloud of smoke. The worst had happened. But early the next day, a ship drew in and rescued him.
He asked the crew, “How did you know I was here?” They replied, “We saw your smoke signal.”
Maybe the difficulty you are experiencing now is a smoke signal that will lead to a greater blessing.
Here is a list that I found that I believe I will help us gain and maintain an attitude of gratitude in our lives.
Take note
This means to live with awareness. As Americans, we are so often tempted to see nothing but our own reality. Take note. Become aware. Open your eyes to the world around you. It will shock you, but it will also cause you to be grateful.
Take inventory
. . . of your blessings. The classic hymn, Count your Many Blessings, says, “When upon life’s billows you are tempest-tossed, when you are discouraged thinking all is lost, count your many blessings name them one by one, and it will surprise you what the Lord has done.”
Many of us have a tendency to focus on what’s wrong, which gives us a distorted picture of life. If we focus on the wrong things we will never see the good things. Take inventory of the blessings and stop focusing on the things that are or could go wrong.
Take action
Turn your attitude of gratitude into an action of appreciation. Do something good for someone else. God has given you plenty, so share it. God didn’t give it to you to solely for your own benefit. He placed it in your hands to see what kind of servant you will be. He gave you all you have so you can be His person, His ambassador, so you can do with it the same thing He would do.